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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Justin Barmore who was born in Louisiana on May 31, 1986 and passed away on June 25, 2005 at the age of 19. We will remember him forever. Justin died in an accident in which one of his best friends was driving while intoxicated.
 Just wanted to let everyone know that wants to know, Jamie received a 2 1/2 year jail time sentence and 5 years probation that starts when he gets out. Charged were dropped down to Negligent Vehicular Homicide, after the approval of Justin's parents. Pam and Steve did a great job of speaking in court. I think everyone was crying. Jamie openly apologized to Pam, Steve, and Heather. The judge also said in case there was any misconception in the community... Jamie was the driver of the truck, not Justin. So just in case anyone was wondering, that's the way it is. Thank you to everyone who wrote letters on Justin's behalf, thank you for the support and prayers. They are greatly appreciated.
9-8-08 Update: Jamie ended up not having to stay in jail 2 1/2 years. He spent maybe 6 months, then got into a work release program. He is now out and married and living his life, only a year after sentencing. (What a wonderful judicial system we have!) Anyway, not going to get going on that, just wanted to update everyone, in case y'all didn't know yet. Thanks
(If you notice some things missing, they are under Justin's legacy. I was trying to make the page load faster.) Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.

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If tears could build a stairway, and memories were a lane, I would walk right up to heaven to bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken no time to say goodbye you were gone before I knew it, and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know.

Justin You are and forever will be missed... please watch over those you left behind.....
We used to pick on Justin about being a dough boy. He took it so well. 

 Sending Them To You Everyday!!!!
ANOTHER KISS FROM ALL OF US!!!!!!

I'm sorry I never told you all I wanted to say Now its too late to hold you coz you've gone away But I hope that when you returned to God someone carried you all the way And I hope I can find it in my heart to understand why you couldn't stay But for now I will accept my losses keeping you always in mind And when I get to heaven you'll be the 1st I'll come and find 

Justin loved to fish!!

This is one of the newspaper articles about Justin and Jamie's wreck.
At approximately 5:20 am in the early hours of Saturday, June 25, 2005, LSP Troopers investigated a single-vehicle crash which left one teen dead and another in critical condition. The crash occurred on North Spillway Road in Union Parish. Nineteen year old Farmerville resident, James E. Gates, was driving his 1996 GMC pick-up truck north on North Spillway Road when he entered a left-hand curve. The vehicle ran off the right side of the roadway, was overcorrected to the left, was then overcorrected back to the right, and ran off the right side of the roadway. The vehicle struck several trees and a culvert before it went airborne and overturned. The driver and his passenger, nineteen year old Justin W. Barmore from Marion, were not wearing seat belts and were ejected in the crash. Barmore was pronounced dead at the scene and Gates was transported to Union General with life-threatening injuries. Alcohol usage and a high rate of speed are suspected as contributing factors to this crash. Routine toxicology tests and charges are pending.
DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE! JWB
Jesus cried happy tears to be receiving such a wonderful angel in Heaven, while we cried sad tears for losing our angel.


Justin
 

You left us suddenly and we never had the chance to say good-bye. You are now an Angel watching over us giving us strength to face the many challenges and changes we will encounter everyday. We have so many memories of how wonderful you were. Always there when you were needed and never failed to show how much you cared. You enjoyed life and always there to make everyone feel welcome and special. You left us way too soon, but the memories will last forever.
I MISS YOU SO MUCH JUSITN, LOVE YOU, LORI
The moment that you died, Our hearts split in two, The one side filled with memories, The other died with you.
We often lay awake at night, When the world is fast asleep, And take a trip down memory lane, With tears upon our cheeks.
Remembering you is easy, We do it every day, But missing you is a heartache, That never goes away.
We hold you tightly within our hearts, And there you will remain, Life has gone by without you, But it will never be the same.



I think Justin grew at least a little bit on every person that he met. I don't think he ever met a stranger. He was just a real people person, with that infectious smile of his. Justin will never be gone from us, as long as we hold him close in our hearts, and that is where he will always be, until that fine day we get to see him again.


 
Justin loved to fish for anything, but bass fishing was his favorite, and he was good at it. He liked to hunt, especially rabbits, squirrels, and doves, and ocassionally deer hunting, especially if we were running dogs. He was very good at these things because, like his dad, he could sneak through the woods very quickly and very quietly. Justin also enjoyed 4-wheeler riding. The day before he died him and his friend, Jordan, went mud hogging. Justin went on my 4-wheeler and Jordan went on Justin's family's 4-wheeler. Judging from the look of my 4-wheeler, they obviously had a blast. Jordan washed the one he was on, but Justin didn't wash mine. :-) Maybe he was planning on going again Saturday. I guess we will never know. But it was something he loved do to.
 
Please light a candle for Justin!!!
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky.... But, rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy..... In Loving Memory Of JUSTIN WADE BARMORE
Don’t want to be selfish, know you’re in a better place, It’s just that I’ll miss seeing your smiling face. It’s a shame you’re gone, taken so young, I’d give anything to have you back, even a lung.
So many loved you- I hope you’re aware, People like you are far, far too rare. Although you were adored, you gave back so much more, The room lit up as you stepped through the front door.
Energetic, Outgoing, Extraordinary since birth, All understatements- rather an angel on earth. Not mad at God, despite the hardship and strife, Instead I thank him and celebrate your life.
One thing’s for sure about the fact that you’re gone, You’ll be in my heart everyday from dusk until dawn. Thank you for your friendship, be sure and take care, You have fun in heaven, hope to see you there.




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Hey / Lori Dodd (girlfriend's mom )
Hey Justin
I just wanted to tell you that I love you and miss you so much. You are always on my mind.. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you..
Love you
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Sorry / Gena Bryan Lafferty
Just came across your message on google and wanted to say how sorry I am that you are having to go down such a rough road in life. I went to Farmerville High School '86 and thought it was such a coinsedince that your son was 19 and the dates were 86-...
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Hey / Lori Dodd (girlfriend's mom )
Hey Justin
I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you and that I love you. I miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I just wish my door would open and it would be you. Or my phone ring and it be y...
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Hey Barmore... / Angel Dodd
Just wanted you to know that I miss you so much and Ill always love you!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY / Lori Dodd (girlfriend's mom )
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JUSITN.
JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU. |
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Happy birthday / Ashley Rhodes (Cousin) Read >> |
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Hey / Lori Dodd (girlfriend's mom ) Read >> |
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Goodnight my sweet Justin / Angel Dodd Read >> |
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Hey barmore / Angel Dodd Read >> |
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hey there buddy / Samantha Middleton (best friend ) Read >> |
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things are better.. / Morgan Langston (friend) Read >> |
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Justin / Lori Dodd (girlfriend's Mom ) Read >> |
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Hey Barmore / Angel Read >> |
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NOT FAIR / Lori Dodd (girlfriend's mom ) Read >> |
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3 years / Ashley Rhodes (cousin) Read >> |
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His legacy |
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Justin met Jesus in Heaven |
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Justin A Year Ago It was a year ago On this sad June day That God said it was time For you to go away. He found a better place He knew was fit for you. You can dance in the streets Because that’s what angels do. You were only 19. Still a kid in our eyes, So sweet and so loving. Your smile was a gift, though not a surprise. Why did you have to Go so far away? We ask this question Every single day. But you are so very Close in our heart, Even though God said We had to part. We each love you In our own special way. Save a place for us in Heaven, So we can all be together again some day.
In Loving Memory of Justin Wade Barmore 5-31-86 – 6-25-05 Never forgotten; Forever loved. Love Always… Ashley Rhodes
Happy Birthday
You would have turned 20 years old today. I would have called you up and said "Happy Birthday!" I can only send my thoughts and hope you can feel my love as I send them both to Heaven, way up above. Too young to be taken. Too precious to be gone. God knew you were a good one, so He took you on home. Our time with you was too short, but oh so very sweet. Your laughter and smile, nothing on earth could beat. Every day for us is hard with you gone from here. Today is especially hard because we need to have you near. We can't have you back until that one fine day we all meet up in Heaven, where we'll always stay. I hope your birthday in Heaven is so very fine. We'll all spend another one together when God says it's time.
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Justin! Love Always, Pooh
A Birthday In Heaven
I heard you crying yesterday And felt your heart-sent love So I’m sending you this message Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate My birthday (way up here) I know you’re missing me today I feel your essence near. God planned a special day for me He told me with a wink He’d ordered me a special cake (It’s Angel food, I think) I’m getting lots of hugs from God He’s really good at that And every time that I walk by He gives my head a pat Balloons will fill the streets for me They float up through the clouds And we have lots of clowns up here That make us laugh out loud
There is a birthday carousel Jeweled horses ride the wind With music playing oh so sweet… The magic never ends
I’ve made so many friends, you see We laugh and play and sing We ride our bikes and play jump rope And sleep in Angel’s wings
We’ll have our cake and ice cream And open gifts, surprise! But we don’t blow out our candles here Instead, they light the skies
Happy 20th Birthday Justin We Love You And Miss You
LETTER FROM HEAVEN To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say... but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you." It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man. God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too... that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain, then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain." And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free, remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
"Christopher Robin?," whispered Pooh. "Yes, Pooh Bear?" "I'll never not remember you...ever."
Miss me, but let me go When I come to the end of the road, And the sun has set for me, I want no rites in a gloom filled room, why cry for a soul set free.
Miss me a little, but not too long, And not not with your heads bowed low, remember the love that we once shared, Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take, And each must go alone, Its all part of the master plan, A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart, Go to the friends we know, And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds, Miss me but let me go.
God Only Cries By Diamond Rio
On an icy road one night, A young man loses his life: They marked the shoulder with a cross. An' his family gathers round, On a piece of Hallowed ground. Their hearts are heavy with their loss. As the tears fall from their eyes, There's one who'll always sympathise.
God only cries for the living, 'Cause it's the living that are left to carry on. An' all the angels up in Heaven, They're not grieving because they're gone. There's a smile on their faces, 'Cause they're in a better place than, mmm, baby, than, oh, God only cries for the living, 'Cause it's the living that are so far from home.
It still makes me sad, When I think of my Grand-dad: I miss him each and every day. But I know the time will come, When my own gradnson, Wonders why I went away. Maybe we're not meant to understand, Till we meet up in the Promised Land.
God only cries for the living, 'Cause it's the living that are left to carry on. And all the angels up in Heaven, They're not grieving because they're gone. There's a smile on their faces, 'Cause they're in a better place than, oh, baby, than oh,. God only cries for the living, 'Cause it's the living that are so far from home. Yeah, we're so far from home. Mmmmm. Mmmm.
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Justin Wade Barmore
Justin, You were and are more loved than you could ever know. I know you are safe now, because you are in Heaven with Jesus. You will never be hurt, sad, or angry again. No more tears, no more darkness. I pray daily that I will see you again someday. We will all be together again. I can't wait for that day. I would give the world to see your smiling face one more time, but I know that wouldn't be enough. You could light up the room. We miss you so much. Keep us safe, keep us straight. I have faith in you. We love you, Justin, always and forever. |
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Justin Justin was a very kind, sweet, loving, respectful young man. There are not enough words to describe Justin. He was everyone's friend, no one's enemy. If someone needed a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen, Justin was there. He loved and was very much loved by his Dad, Mom, and sister. You could always count on seeing that wonderful smile of his that could light up a room. He loved his truck, even though at times he thought it was a "piece of junk." He loved to ride 4-wheelers, squirrel, rabbit and dove hunt, and fish, and hang out with his friends. He was also in love with a very special girl. He loved his job. He was really moving up. He had the whole world ahead of him, and his future was looking bright. But I guess God just wanted his angel back. We only borrowed him for a seemingly very short time. But I know we'll meet him again on the other side. But we still miss him very much, and always will.
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Justin's Photo Album |
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| Justin Wade Barmore, man of "SMILES" |
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